- Childfreedom and My Boss.
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seethingheathen wrote in
childfree
- December 10th, 17:14
A rant, in letter form, from a casual lurker:
Dear B,
I understand you are from a culture that stresses the importance of marriage and procreation, but I do not subscribe to your beliefs.
I know you like my boyfriend, and you think he is a good guy. Hey, I do too! He's got a great job, his own house, and he loves me. However, we are not in a rush to have children. Why? Let's consider the following:
- Even though I am thirty, I do not feel my biological clock ticking down to zero. I haven't firmly decided against children, but I'm leaning toward 'no'.
- He is only twenty-three. He hasn't decided whether or not he wants to have children, for various reasons. He has plenty of time to figure that out. We have actually discussed this.
- We have only been dating for three months. It's a bit early to be decorating the nursery, don't you think?
Despite the fact that you have known my family for years, and are considered more of a friend than a superior, it really isn't your concern if or when I decide to settle down. No, I really don't think my life is incomplete unless I have children. I like my life the way it is now: I answer to no one but myself. Besides, I have three nephews and a niece whom I love very much and spoil when I can.
Love,
Me
(I should say that my boss really is a nice guy. He's not a creeper or anything, he just gets overly concerned about my supposed well-being.)